Monday, April 13, 2009

A Brand New Man

And she comes out swinging!

So I've branched out and started speaking with a 45 year old submissive policemen. I'm not sure what it is about these manly types, but military men, fire fighters, cops, etc. all get me a little hot n bothered. I get a thrill out of dominating a tough man....
We started speaking last week. He's from Arlington so he's relatively close and he seems perfect.

I think going with an older submissive man was probably the way to go. He is comfortable with his sexuality and the expression of it. I'm convinced Ace probably castigated himself after playing with me.

I've yet to play with the cop however. We've talked over the phone and I'm currently visiting my parents. When I get back this weekend we will meet and see what happens. I'm a little wary. He has a couple of fetishes that I'm not familiar with. One of these is a foot fetish. Which admittedly sounds kind of sexy to me. But its still knew so I do have a lot to learn.

I have to admit I'd love to take him shoe shopping with me and have him put the shoes on my feet and maybe even pick some out. If he's been a good boy.

The other is humilation. While I understand the turn on I'm still a little uncomfortable with using some of those words with him. Words like whore, slut, and even the dreaded cunt. He finds this intensely erotic. My jury is still out on this....
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  1. strongnsubmissiveApril 13, 2009 at 1:38 PM

    Well Ms Rayne I can't help you out on the humiliation thing but the shoe shopping trip would absolutely blow me away so I think you're heading in the right direction with that one. The public setting may even play into the humiliation theme a little too so who knows!
    Good luck....

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  2. ritemateApril 14, 2009 at 11:53 AM

    Good luck with this one. Seems You won’t have to buy any handcuffs. His foot fetish probably goes beyond Your shoes, so be prepared for some nice foot pampering and (if it’s OK with You and You’re not too ticklish) perhaps a tongue bath. My Wife really likes a good foot massage.

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  3. saratogaApril 14, 2009 at 7:24 PM

    Ms. Rayne-

    I've gone boot shopping and fitting with XM, my ex-Mistress. It's wonderful. And humiliating at the same time.

    Also, humiliation doesn't have to be all about denigrating verbiage. Just doing something like calling him a pet and treating him like one, for example, might do it.

    Depends on his wiring.

    -saratoga

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  4. Ms. RayneApril 18, 2009 at 2:48 PM

    strongnsubmissive:

    Thanks for the feedback! I'm sure you are right about the public setting!

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  5. Ms. RayneApril 18, 2009 at 2:50 PM

    saratoga:

    Thanks for the suggestion. I would feel more comfortable with something more like an endearment. Pet fits the bill!

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  6. Ms. RayneApril 18, 2009 at 2:51 PM

    ritemate:

    LOL. Hmmm...handcuffs. I do like those.

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